(http://74.125.113.132/search?q=cache:SC8m6fa2P4QJ:www.policy.hu/nagy/Economist12042006_A%2520guide%2520to%2520womenomics.doc+how+working+mothers+contribute+to+economy+in+gdp&cd=9&hl=en&ct=clnk&gl=us)Working women/working mothers by the way subsidize all the benefits (what we are taxed on obviously 30%+ for single females plus sales taxes) AND PAY FOR ALL THE SERVICES WHICH INCOME AND SALES TAXES PROVIDE!!! while non working women upon marriage (or before) women reap the benefits their whole life!! Non working women also receive duplicate social security income once their husband passes away or becomes 65 and again, for not working day in whole life!!Women who work as mothers fourty years as example (1000 2 YR/4YR/MASTERS/PHD DEGREED HINDU WOMEN WE PERSONALLY KNOW) PAY FOR EVERYTHING THAT NON WORKING WOMEN RECEIVE AS WELL AS THE CHILDREN OF NON WORKING WOMEN OR THEIR WELFARE SYSTEM!!! A FULLY FUNCTIONING ECONOMY MEANS TWO INCOME HOUSEHOLD and when it is two income household alot more more money is being circulated in the economy -increased productivity translates to increased consumer spending and GROWTH!! Imagine a working mother earning $35,000 per annum as example and multiply that by half the female population in US, think of all the services and products bought (consumer spending accounts for 70% of the economy in US)!! The multiplier effect IN PURE ECONOMICS TERMS clearly states a dollar spent impacts by 5x in outputs and spending!!!! http://www.econweb.com/MacroWelcome/multiplier/notes.html
IT COULD ALSO SAY SOMETHING ABOUT WHO MARRIED WHO FOR WHAT MAYBE. BUT AS LIFE GOES, SOME OF OUR DESI MEN LOVE FOREIGNERS TO BE THEIR PRINCESSES AT HOME FOREVER (read again ratio), THEIR OWN INDIAN GIRLS JUST DON'T FIT THE BILL FOR SOME OF THESE INDIAN GUYS! A good movie which depicts this phenomenon: Provoked (Aishwarya Rai, based on true story) -so India women reading this (the ones who do want to marry own) you have to really learn more about him. I don't mean to lecture again or repeat what I have stated in the Broken Hearted ABCD's post, but In India we say you love the one you marry, not the other way around. This can prove to be very disastrous for some situations. With one relationship, he was ogling every yellow hair foreign girl even at doctor's office while I was taking care of him or at the grandmothers whose bras could be seen under their transparent shirt at grocery store or even drooling at mouth for foreign news anchor (she was the sunshine of his life first thing in the morning- in other words many men maybe more so off the boat have a much higher lust for foreign women!) while calling darker skinned Indians "kalu" then denying it and worse things about fellow Indians and India even! This within first couple months. Another from a couple years ago I found out after five months he was another sex addict happy on his Hooters lovers and 19 yr olds Euro girls and they were proudly displayed in all of his social networking sites as soon as he got off boat (necessity for some Indian guys that she is under 20, and if she is very white Euro looking he worships like you wouldn't believe& friends have mentioned encounters of Muslims posing as other religion so there is not easy way to know background;there are not minimum age requirements for marriage in Koran and is reason you will find high prevalence of 12 year olds marrying in arab countries such as Yemen and where average number of children per household is 7). The pre frontal cortex of a brain is not fully developed until 25. Read up on it and how important this part of the brain is in terms of maturity levels.
My opinion to India men: IF YOU REALLY HAVE FOREIGN GIRL
LUST DO WHAT'S RIGHT, AND DON'T BE A WUSS AND COWARD MARRYING A BEAUTIFUL INDIAN DESI GIRL WITH HER DEGREE OR DEGREES WHATEVER HER AGE IS, and whether she stays at home forever or doesn't BECAUSE YOU FEEL PRESSURED TO!!! Don't be halfway about it!!! If you find yourself lusting for foreign women, marry them and leave Indian women alone for romance!! IT'S BETTER THAN TO GO THRU WHAT I HAVE OR HAVE SEEN OTHER DESI WOMEN GO THRU OR WHAT ACTUAL CHARACTER IN PROVOKED WENT THRU (WHICH HAPPENS FOR MILLIONS MORE OF US)!! Note to India women: many like what looks different from them so it doesn't hurt to alter look- one shade of light tan (medium fair) to medium tan isn't as dramatic as it seems, and if Hilton can have blue eyes one day, and green the next, why not go from dark brown to blue or get highlights for your hair? But if you find a guy who makes it clear his family doesn't care (sign to look out for good number of direct male relatives are with foreign race/religion) nor does he what he marries, or he gives hints he loves foreign women or their body parts colors, it means his heritage isn't that important to him and he may just be looking to spread his "Desi Indian" seed to foreigners. It also means he isn't really the traditional type as most of us are who for them it does mean everything (or he wasn't raised properly to respect his heritage) and obviously how the "Desi Indian women" played a big role in his upbringing. If you're dealing with a no priding Desi male, you are also dealing with the kind of guy who will cheat on you more easily and probably have greater likelihood to abuse (also seen in Provoked) and may have foreign lovers who are age 16 on while together with you (look out for "Private" calls on Sunday evenings another lesson I learned). It may not seem fair to make that assessment but WHAT Desi MEANS to alot of ACTUAL 100% DESI HINDU INDIANS IS IN FACT THE TRADITIONS INCLUDING BEING FAITHFUL TO YOUR FAMILY (it isn't a coincidence that we are one of few ethnicities, if not only who allow our parents to live with us their last 20 years or however many as example). I have seen some of these Desi guys who are obsessed and sold on foreign race they either worship her to such an extent that not only does he not care if she is home forever doing nothing and does nothing with her 2 yr or 4 yr degree, as example though in most cases high school diploma is sufficient (and you wonder why there is shortgage of nurses in states), but will also use it as an excuse to have his mistresses (these Indian men know they can go to any foreign women since the ones we have seen marry and sleep with anyone who has a career so she can be at home doing nothing forever; I was offered as well to stay at home from first India male as well as many other suitable males but last India male was unlike any other foaming at mouth for blonds. Not being a brainless lazy bimbo I stated I wanted to help with finances!) Point is there are alot of give aways to who he really is, and a man who lusts for foreign women is not my cup of tea! I really hope those Indian guys reading this who love their foreign partners from past or present and secretly admire what is opposite to your own, just stick to that. The devotion an Indian girl who wants to marry her own or loves her own, you do not deserve and should not have (or better yet, pursue instead the Indian girls who do not care and are cultural/religious mutts like you, atleast you are more compatible in that regard).
Realize also, that many are clueless about differences in sexuality between most acutal 100% desi Indian girls and foreign girls. Clue him in with knowledge ie Differences in Teenage Pregnancy among Five Developed Countries (By Jstor) article. In most of India girls and guys are not even allowed to interact until early 20's much less sleeping with since pre-teens and teens nor are women drinking from time they are 19 or much younger in high school as a norm on consistent weekly basis culture in India (strip clubs do not exist nor prostitution a sexy business in every town as well dress codes until college opposite of public nudity from young age for different countries)! It is important for me to make desi Indian men aware enough to get DNA PATERNITY exams which COST ONLY $100 since many foreign women are also obsessed with their light brown eyes or blue eyes or white skin and mulitple partners at a time is much more accepted in other countries starting from early teens as article points out. As example, I remember watching Celebrity News show along line of Access Hollywood pointing to these teen stars having five boyfriends at one time and this was not stated in perspective it is shocking but just a point of fact so this is not a caricature but instead societal norm. India men need to be aware of foreign women using them for their careers as well (they have a boyfriend while Desi guy is paying out to her unknowingly, and women receive a lot of alimony after seven years of marriage even if she contributed nothing in that time). There was an article in Washington Post regarding private investigations services being used newly in India. Advice to desi Indian men use them in states. I think it is safe to say desi Indian women should do the same. Make him aware of the STD epidemics such as Herpes and many others, up to 50% of population will have Herpes virus in states: http://www.herpes-coldsores.com/herpes_statistics.htm (type Herpes rates in US and remind him it is incurable) and HPV statistics have reached 1/4 women!
