Broken Hearted Abcds Part 2, Part 1 below

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ABCD's Part 1

Title: Remember our Indian men r getting s** from very sexually aggressive women (whose whole cutlure &upbringing is revolved around lust&nudity) & even our Indian men are capable of lying :(. they will say...I will never drool@mouth for a loosey Lucy in front of you yet the hypocritical jerks have their groupie friends/foreign sex partners as facebook/orkut friends- and the worst part is they have jungle fever(high lust for foreign women) and are in denial. This is the point and also- who knew that facebook is online blackbook dating site!!

Beginning: As if us desi girls don't go thru enough in a foreign country (desi men as well, movie Namesake explores this very topic except it is different topic when you add the factor that white men or other foreign men do not walk around nude everywhere and flashing their pen**ses for public) If u find a clean guy here, it was because he was raised properly by a traditional father, and traditional very strict Indian mother as us Indians are known for having (our moms did not let us leave the house in tiny skirts after certain age nor revealing tops and of course our Moms always wore beautiful sulvar kurthis or saris in the house), something found in greater numbers among religious families: by religious I mean in manner that Hindus (or Buddhists Sikhs and Jains) are actively involved with the religion on daily basis and weekly basis whole life. This is one of the reasons Hindu marriages especially in India last a whole lifetime, same is true for the very extremely Orthodox Abra. families who are heavily involved in their religious communities as Hindu Indians are.

The rest have family histories with many sexual deviancies,cheating parents,multiple marriages, stepparents in almost half the homes etc. You don't have to look too much further than the celebrities. To an extent they typify the broader culture ie Britney Spears engaging in a relationship with another woman's husband and who just had given birth, or Denise Richards sleeping with Heather Locklear's husband (they also had a kid). http://www.stepfamily.org/statistics.html or see Larry King working on 6th marriage.

 The article states it may be due to the women having careers as cause for the high divorce rates and multiple marriages but then why in literally 1000 Indian Hindu families or other Orthodox communities, do you not see this same statistic whether in India or US, especially after kids and the 1000 Indian Hindu women worked after kids and also had careers!! In either case, look up drunk Russian girls online for reference, they're the same breed as the atheist American women who flaunt their fake lesbianism from early teen years and realize that for whatever reason 70% of 16 yr.olds have started drinking at this age or younger. I can barely find any Indian girls drunk online much less a thousand videos of Indian Hindu teen girls drunk flaunting fake lesbianism though some propaganda machine will probably create fake vids) so they don't have good role models in direct family or all relatives as majority of in Eastern countries have...hence y they r more prone to monkey se* (and the high divorce rates,high single parenthood (1/5), high teen pregnancies (1/6)multiple marriages,numerous infidelities, pacified about sleeping with married partners and while married (not just a few, millions are raised on only filth, hence their filthy behaviors), high rates of herpes for women(1/4) and other stds are just symptoms) and while the well raised Indian Hindu guys r disgusted @other women's unabashadness & loose morals (think out of a million Hindu Indian girls how many u would see at 17 giving nudy shows for $20 GGW vids....unless there's fake Hindu girls in future, answer is zero!) &overall in love &loyal to their own Indian women in all aspects... There r situations which u really have to learn a person's history first to better understand their deviancies..luckily majority of Hindu Indian guys r great (hence the very aggressive foreign women) so weeding out the wrong ones is an art for those of us for whom it was never an option to marry outside. The respectable ones, again, have generations past of family togetherness, families living with, male relatives' show of decency etc (very important). It is the Hindu Indian males who attend the temple functions with their Hindu Indian wives and have for 5,000 years,as well the numerous daily Hindu traditions.

Please take the several pieces of advice I have laid out :) since it's bad enough many of us grow up here isolated a majority of our lives unless we are in heavily Indian populated area such as New York City or California....(and great for the new networking sites like facebook where folks add their 200 work friends and friends of those work friends -friend and I were just laughing about that yesterday)actual Hindu Indian girls r very vulnerable to those guys who were raised nothing like a majority of us were &how do you tell you're talking to an Abrahamic lusting for guy instead of fellow Indian Hindu who is looking for his own and loves only his own? Research!!! A respectable fellow doesn't need to keep anything private! In all of our Hindu marriages you will never see "shadiness" in any of it's forms. So research his facebook friends, orkut friends BEFORE he makes the fake I love yous for how much ever time; who he has as his friends is usually a give away of what his true desires & passions are.


If his friends are along this line:
a) slutty posing girls that just graduated high school & he is much older (Koran does not specify age for marriage, in Arabic countries marriages as young as 10 are accepted, India legal age to marry is minimum 21)

b) they show full body pics 4 facebook or other flaunting their I'm just so close to being a hot nudy for world look

c) most r vulgar enough to have boob shots 4 these personal profiles (personal means what their family and friends has access to) as well or all their other nudy pictures in their "photo gallery" advertisting their readiness to sleep with anyone/everyone &se**al openness (for anyone).

d) if you notice, 95% of Hindu girls knowing their dads or brothers could be online have only their face online unless it's pic with their hubby

e) the Abrahmic faith seeking Indian guys (or jungle fever guys) will be so proud of these conquests attained here they even pride it and flaunt it as if to say: I have made it, I have come to US, "I get lots of s** from these always available girls & you may see me as an utter di**head, but I see myself as a hot pimp!!" For every 40 girls he sleeps with in foreign country, in India it is 2! So IT IS NOT A PRIZE though he is disillusioned that it is, having foreigners who sleep with anyone and everyone &from young age and are nude for anyone and everyone (the bar culture is in fact true: the term bar slut explains the average girl goes "club hopping" and bedding new partners on weekly basis) and are a part of his blackbook facebook dating "friends list displaying their privates in their stripper outfits" &how very sad that white men the ones we have met would never be so pathetic to think they got a prize if he has his foreign lovers in his lists. They have so much more pride possibly than our own men it seems in their own women and themselves and if they do have Indian girls in their online dating blackbook they typically are just face pictures since Indian women have other things they pride on: not just skinny body and legs and bo***! (which we always have but we're raised 360 degrees differently most of us!) Read 1rst post!! they literally get our men by their di***!! &the more he sleeps with them the more he gets used to it, and acclimated to the idea of marriage unfortunately, as well. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l9rgsZQFBs4. I recall a few years back watching an episode of The Bachelor and there was one India girl among 20 white girls for white guy bachelor. She was eliminated first round (note she was quite beautiful). She made a cute comment to guy during their conversation time about how she felt like she was on some cattle call etc and imagined cows jumping over fences to get to him (what it felt like being on Bachelor). In either case, the analogy is relevant.

Some helpful tips: repeat!!!! he's from another faith or background completely if he has these type of women as his friends or watches their po** and is not ashamed of it. It may not be his fault however for not realizing that in India or other Eastern countries, the whole culture is not revolved around teenage girls making nude videos or being nude in public (shorts that come to underwear in most peoples opinions is pretty close to nude). In foreign countries, girls are auctioned off from a young age - peers and media influence them that their only value is "being po** stars" and even from a young age, so please wake up Indian men! I remember at the age of 15 we had out of state friends of family come to house- 16 yr old Indian guy and I were flirting away from my parents outside. I can't think for a second at that age a thought would have been to publish nude pictures for guy who was fliritng with me or make nude vid of me in linge**e, at that age!! In ten years so much has changed in US. It's gotten grotesque (bad enough many are not raised in strict households and without religion but their only media is tv of always next to naked stars whether B Spears dancing around nude pole for relatives at nude bar or Hilton po** videos being advertised on tv- point being it is always and only sell po** to young audience in every possible media outlet and every movie even dramas/comedies/actions having full nudity as well-marketing tactic to make you seek out given ethnicity for s** or marriage; Bollywood has had only one full nude scene in the last 70 yrs). If close to 20% of teens are pregnant, it should tell you that majority have started much younger. 

In either case, true and actual Indian Hindu guys we grew up with worship their own in same way the women & like the millions of us who r married & faithful to our own so do not for a second think just because he claims to be Indian or raised Indian Hindu that he is. If you have taken the time to research his friends list, you may just find out how vulnerable he will make you to: herpes (lasts a lifetime and is transmitted via kissing and condoms do not protect completely from infection), crab, yeast infection, hpv (some strains cause cancers and also, like herpes it lives on the skin and condoms may not fully protect, and can be transmitted via kissing), gonorrhea, chlamydia, hiv, hepatitis (several of these lead to unfertility if not diagnosed and almost of all these are symptomless for weeks or months or in case of hepatitis for years!) (Koran allows four wives for men, but women cannot have four husbands, so you might be talking to Muslim <friendships are fine but dating marriage is disallowed>) or all of the above!

(think of him in same way u wouldn't go near Kid Rock or Eminem or Snoop Dog (though great songs) & all their groupies- hundreds of them follow these guys around begging to give oral s**! see celebrities with Herpes in google while you're at it or google images) so just know him 4 a year atleast & DO NOT BY ANY MEANS ALLOW YOURSELF TO GET EMOTIONAL OR ALLOW any form of intimacy until you know him for alot longer! they really are becoming big time monkeys from so much available se* they get here and women young (16 and up or much younger) &old & in the middle throwing themselves at him from all corners. In India to get this type of quantity and variety of s** you have to go to prostitutes on daily basis, since majority of the population does not begin sexual activity til 20's or marriage. Advice to fellow Indian Hindu girls whose hundreds of male relatives, brother in laws, all the hundreds of extended men are complete good guys always with their families..

Once you are serious for marriage: bharatmatrimony.com or going to India for actual fellow Indian Hindu hubby...these are the guys who are serious for their own Indian girls while so many others may be in state of purgatory fascinated by the overt se**ality &nudity they see in daily life, and remember to have your radar on for a year at the minimum and always keep in front and center what you are looking for.
The second you see any signs of shadiness: think about the kind of guys you grew up with: the opposite. If he is making a display of it consider yourself at fault for having wasted any amount of time and for not having researched first or analyzed his character and intentions (and if he had said no, you can't see who my lovers are online or blackbook of his go to girls etc in that case go to step 1, he is a shady character & exit the relationship or he doesn't admit they are his Hooters girlfriends & bootycalls. As a good guy friend told me there is no such thing as men having 'friends' only women he hasn't slept with yet, women he is sleeping with currently, and will sleep with in near future provided she is not obese) for a sufficient amount of time before allowing the emotion quotient to enter acquaintance.

In India, indeed in public (not just the schools thru college) the women are alot more modest and reserved- kurthis and sulvars until college, this is same in China as well (for their schools at least) so you can really understand the culture shock for those coming from other countries. There is underground market of foreign po** in India on top of it while regular po** is illegal, and nor is prostitution viewed as glamorous business.  Then they come to foreign countries, and the women are pursuing him and are alot more available so to speak. So just protect yourself...and don't get heartbroken as I have and I know there are so many other Indian girls here in states isolated from their own and have been through similar. There is a very good reason these foreign women are claiming Census states 40% of Indian Hindu men are marrying out 24% of Hindu Indian women when in actuality Census.gov has not even published interracial dating reports for Asian Indians in 2000...The study that was done http://www.asian-nation.org/interracial.shtml explains clearly 5% overall marry out (and what percentage of that are foreign raised or US raised - 40% or 24%) Why are foreigners crazy for Hindu Indian men? Stability (marriagepartner.com is advertising Hindu Indian divorce rates), a man who has a career so they can possibly be stay at home moms/wives forever (see Hoffman/Averett Women and The Economy for the high statistics of stay at homes after kids for foreign women) The blogger who is advertising false stats has the nerve by the way to have excerpt regarding guilt of intercultural marriage! Guilt over false propaganda claims: none.
So Indian women, don't give up hope. These personal networking sites are very new, but most of us in reality did not have access to fellow Indians (unless living in urban setting like New York City)in same age group our whole life nor especially in daily life...it is painful in so many aspects to find a guy who is nothing of what you expect because of what you have seen from all of your own relatives and upbringing. Our families we have access to all married from all borders of India- the communities are strong but living their suburban lifestyles in other states or even within state, meaning their only access is relatives, temple friends or their Indian store cohorts ;). So you expect this same traditional backbone from the two whole single Indian men you come across. Bad move!