And God said "eh" "Whatever" "It's all propaganda"

Saturday

For the love of gruesome details and syrup!

What we read inspires us, changes us and how we view the world and of course what is okay in our world and what is not. It makes us question these things; it also involves a new way of looking at Aunt Jemima though I prefer less sugar (referring to a question should all the syrupy details of a marriage or relationship or agony of given current relationship be public on a per comment pending approval basis?) along with a reflection on India's marriage ceremonies..is it that the religious Hindu Vedic ceremony is losing it's value in the modern world?
The sindoor husband and Hindu pujari places in part of hair, the bindhi (applied at pineal gland <where third eye is>), 6th chakra energy center http://www.medindia.net/Yoga-Lifestyle/sevenchakras-print.htm are us India women changing? Should we? Are we just following these customs in the way a clown adds his red button nose? At one time, a very brief one, in India's history, polyandry was accepted in some areas though pretty rare, as well as polygamy (neither of these were prevalent throughout the land). Both are illegal in India today. Should our Hindu Vedic ceremonies between man and wife change to incorporate future lovers found from blogs or our privates flesh displays to all men for the fear of spouse's future "shrivelment" by our spouses? Should we accept other lovers for our spouses and for ourselves? How liberal are we becoming? Did a child come from two wombs and 3 pen****? Are there just some people who are not jealous nor possessive? That for them marriage is just a ladder or a comfortable blanket? A friendship tied by a knot for society sake and financial security? My heartfelt and sincere sorrow that everything my parents are (as well the relatives, everything they taught  (and from their great grandparents) that the future and even current generations are at risk of not becoming. For those who are so easily seduced, can you have love or a soulmate when you cannot be loyal nor committed to a simple thing termed marriage? Is it "love" when it is void of  jealousy and possessiveness? Obviously, "love" means something different to everyone, so does "soulmate", so does "marriage", and so does everything our Vedic Hindu ceremonies stand for (original Vedic ceremonies were between man and wife only, and they are the most ancient  marriage ceremonies to date)  http://shine.yahoo.com/channel/sex/confession-i-fell-in-love-with-a-married-man-553007/?pg=25#comments" (****this is comments page from s** addicts page re: extramarital affairs) see the last comment on page I selected (article precedes comments obviously)****
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{Some nice pictures of Ancient Hindu Vedic Marriage Ceremony found here: http://www.dreamstime.com/thread_8589}