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Broken Hearted Abcds Part 2, Part 1 below

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ABCD's Part 1

Title: Remember our Indian men r getting s** from very sexually aggressive women (whose whole cutlure &upbringing is revolved around lust&nudity) & even our Indian men are capable of lying :(. they will say...I will never drool@mouth for a loosey Lucy in front of you yet the hypocritical jerks have their groupie friends/foreign sex partners as facebook/orkut friends- and the worst part is they have jungle fever(high lust for foreign women) and are in denial. This is the point and also- who knew that facebook is online blackbook dating site!!

Beginning: As if us desi girls don't go thru enough in a foreign country (desi men as well, movie Namesake explores this very topic except it is different topic when you add the factor that white men or other foreign men do not walk around nude everywhere and flashing their pen**ses for public) If u find a clean guy here, it was because he was raised properly by a traditional father, and traditional very strict Indian mother as us Indians are known for having (our moms did not let us leave the house in tiny skirts after certain age nor revealing tops and of course our Moms always wore beautiful sulvar kurthis or saris in the house), something found in greater numbers among religious families: by religious I mean in manner that Hindus (or Buddhists Sikhs and Jains) are actively involved with the religion on daily basis and weekly basis whole life. This is one of the reasons Hindu marriages especially in India last a whole lifetime, same is true for the very extremely Orthodox Abra. families who are heavily involved in their religious communities as Hindu Indians are.

The rest have family histories with many sexual deviancies,cheating parents,multiple marriages, stepparents in almost half the homes etc. You don't have to look too much further than the celebrities. To an extent they typify the broader culture ie Britney Spears engaging in a relationship with another woman's husband and who just had given birth, or Denise Richards sleeping with Heather Locklear's husband (they also had a kid). http://www.stepfamily.org/statistics.html or see Larry King working on 6th marriage.

 The article states it may be due to the women having careers as cause for the high divorce rates and multiple marriages but then why in literally 1000 Indian Hindu families or other Orthodox communities, do you not see this same statistic whether in India or US, especially after kids and the 1000 Indian Hindu women worked after kids and also had careers!! In either case, look up drunk Russian girls online for reference, they're the same breed as the atheist American women who flaunt their fake lesbianism from early teen years and realize that for whatever reason 70% of 16 yr.olds have started drinking at this age or younger. I can barely find any Indian girls drunk online much less a thousand videos of Indian Hindu teen girls drunk flaunting fake lesbianism though some propaganda machine will probably create fake vids) so they don't have good role models in direct family or all relatives as majority of in Eastern countries have...hence y they r more prone to monkey se* (and the high divorce rates,high single parenthood (1/5), high teen pregnancies (1/6)multiple marriages,numerous infidelities, pacified about sleeping with married partners and while married (not just a few, millions are raised on only filth, hence their filthy behaviors), high rates of herpes for women(1/4) and other stds are just symptoms) and while the well raised Indian Hindu guys r disgusted @other women's unabashadness & loose morals (think out of a million Hindu Indian girls how many u would see at 17 giving nudy shows for $20 GGW vids....unless there's fake Hindu girls in future, answer is zero!) &overall in love &loyal to their own Indian women in all aspects... There r situations which u really have to learn a person's history first to better understand their deviancies..luckily majority of Hindu Indian guys r great (hence the very aggressive foreign women) so weeding out the wrong ones is an art for those of us for whom it was never an option to marry outside. The respectable ones, again, have generations past of family togetherness, families living with, male relatives' show of decency etc (very important). It is the Hindu Indian males who attend the temple functions with their Hindu Indian wives and have for 5,000 years,as well the numerous daily Hindu traditions.

Please take the several pieces of advice I have laid out :) since it's bad enough many of us grow up here isolated a majority of our lives unless we are in heavily Indian populated area such as New York City or California....(and great for the new networking sites like facebook where folks add their 200 work friends and friends of those work friends -friend and I were just laughing about that yesterday)actual Hindu Indian girls r very vulnerable to those guys who were raised nothing like a majority of us were &how do you tell you're talking to an Abrahamic lusting for guy instead of fellow Indian Hindu who is looking for his own and loves only his own? Research!!! A respectable fellow doesn't need to keep anything private! In all of our Hindu marriages you will never see "shadiness" in any of it's forms. So research his facebook friends, orkut friends BEFORE he makes the fake I love yous for how much ever time; who he has as his friends is usually a give away of what his true desires & passions are.


If his friends are along this line:
a) slutty posing girls that just graduated high school & he is much older (Koran does not specify age for marriage, in Arabic countries marriages as young as 10 are accepted, India legal age to marry is minimum 21)

b) they show full body pics 4 facebook or other flaunting their I'm just so close to being a hot nudy for world look

c) most r vulgar enough to have boob shots 4 these personal profiles (personal means what their family and friends has access to) as well or all their other nudy pictures in their "photo gallery" advertisting their readiness to sleep with anyone/everyone &se**al openness (for anyone).

d) if you notice, 95% of Hindu girls knowing their dads or brothers could be online have only their face online unless it's pic with their hubby

e) the Abrahmic faith seeking Indian guys (or jungle fever guys) will be so proud of these conquests attained here they even pride it and flaunt it as if to say: I have made it, I have come to US, "I get lots of s** from these always available girls & you may see me as an utter di**head, but I see myself as a hot pimp!!" For every 40 girls he sleeps with in foreign country, in India it is 2! So IT IS NOT A PRIZE though he is disillusioned that it is, having foreigners who sleep with anyone and everyone &from young age and are nude for anyone and everyone (the bar culture is in fact true: the term bar slut explains the average girl goes "club hopping" and bedding new partners on weekly basis) and are a part of his blackbook facebook dating "friends list displaying their privates in their stripper outfits" &how very sad that white men the ones we have met would never be so pathetic to think they got a prize if he has his foreign lovers in his lists. They have so much more pride possibly than our own men it seems in their own women and themselves and if they do have Indian girls in their online dating blackbook they typically are just face pictures since Indian women have other things they pride on: not just skinny body and legs and bo***! (which we always have but we're raised 360 degrees differently most of us!) Read 1rst post!! they literally get our men by their di***!! &the more he sleeps with them the more he gets used to it, and acclimated to the idea of marriage unfortunately, as well. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l9rgsZQFBs4. I recall a few years back watching an episode of The Bachelor and there was one India girl among 20 white girls for white guy bachelor. She was eliminated first round (note she was quite beautiful). She made a cute comment to guy during their conversation time about how she felt like she was on some cattle call etc and imagined cows jumping over fences to get to him (what it felt like being on Bachelor). In either case, the analogy is relevant.

Some helpful tips: repeat!!!! he's from another faith or background completely if he has these type of women as his friends or watches their po** and is not ashamed of it. It may not be his fault however for not realizing that in India or other Eastern countries, the whole culture is not revolved around teenage girls making nude videos or being nude in public (shorts that come to underwear in most peoples opinions is pretty close to nude). In foreign countries, girls are auctioned off from a young age - peers and media influence them that their only value is "being po** stars" and even from a young age, so please wake up Indian men! I remember at the age of 15 we had out of state friends of family come to house- 16 yr old Indian guy and I were flirting away from my parents outside. I can't think for a second at that age a thought would have been to publish nude pictures for guy who was fliritng with me or make nude vid of me in linge**e, at that age!! In ten years so much has changed in US. It's gotten grotesque (bad enough many are not raised in strict households and without religion but their only media is tv of always next to naked stars whether B Spears dancing around nude pole for relatives at nude bar or Hilton po** videos being advertised on tv- point being it is always and only sell po** to young audience in every possible media outlet and every movie even dramas/comedies/actions having full nudity as well-marketing tactic to make you seek out given ethnicity for s** or marriage; Bollywood has had only one full nude scene in the last 70 yrs). If close to 20% of teens are pregnant, it should tell you that majority have started much younger. 

In either case, true and actual Indian Hindu guys we grew up with worship their own in same way the women & like the millions of us who r married & faithful to our own so do not for a second think just because he claims to be Indian or raised Indian Hindu that he is. If you have taken the time to research his friends list, you may just find out how vulnerable he will make you to: herpes (lasts a lifetime and is transmitted via kissing and condoms do not protect completely from infection), crab, yeast infection, hpv (some strains cause cancers and also, like herpes it lives on the skin and condoms may not fully protect, and can be transmitted via kissing), gonorrhea, chlamydia, hiv, hepatitis (several of these lead to unfertility if not diagnosed and almost of all these are symptomless for weeks or months or in case of hepatitis for years!) (Koran allows four wives for men, but women cannot have four husbands, so you might be talking to Muslim <friendships are fine but dating marriage is disallowed>) or all of the above!

(think of him in same way u wouldn't go near Kid Rock or Eminem or Snoop Dog (though great songs) & all their groupies- hundreds of them follow these guys around begging to give oral s**! see celebrities with Herpes in google while you're at it or google images) so just know him 4 a year atleast & DO NOT BY ANY MEANS ALLOW YOURSELF TO GET EMOTIONAL OR ALLOW any form of intimacy until you know him for alot longer! they really are becoming big time monkeys from so much available se* they get here and women young (16 and up or much younger) &old & in the middle throwing themselves at him from all corners. In India to get this type of quantity and variety of s** you have to go to prostitutes on daily basis, since majority of the population does not begin sexual activity til 20's or marriage. Advice to fellow Indian Hindu girls whose hundreds of male relatives, brother in laws, all the hundreds of extended men are complete good guys always with their families..

Once you are serious for marriage: bharatmatrimony.com or going to India for actual fellow Indian Hindu hubby...these are the guys who are serious for their own Indian girls while so many others may be in state of purgatory fascinated by the overt se**ality &nudity they see in daily life, and remember to have your radar on for a year at the minimum and always keep in front and center what you are looking for.
The second you see any signs of shadiness: think about the kind of guys you grew up with: the opposite. If he is making a display of it consider yourself at fault for having wasted any amount of time and for not having researched first or analyzed his character and intentions (and if he had said no, you can't see who my lovers are online or blackbook of his go to girls etc in that case go to step 1, he is a shady character & exit the relationship or he doesn't admit they are his Hooters girlfriends & bootycalls. As a good guy friend told me there is no such thing as men having 'friends' only women he hasn't slept with yet, women he is sleeping with currently, and will sleep with in near future provided she is not obese) for a sufficient amount of time before allowing the emotion quotient to enter acquaintance.

In India, indeed in public (not just the schools thru college) the women are alot more modest and reserved- kurthis and sulvars until college, this is same in China as well (for their schools at least) so you can really understand the culture shock for those coming from other countries. There is underground market of foreign po** in India on top of it while regular po** is illegal, and nor is prostitution viewed as glamorous business.  Then they come to foreign countries, and the women are pursuing him and are alot more available so to speak. So just protect yourself...and don't get heartbroken as I have and I know there are so many other Indian girls here in states isolated from their own and have been through similar. There is a very good reason these foreign women are claiming Census states 40% of Indian Hindu men are marrying out 24% of Hindu Indian women when in actuality Census.gov has not even published interracial dating reports for Asian Indians in 2000...The study that was done http://www.asian-nation.org/interracial.shtml explains clearly 5% overall marry out (and what percentage of that are foreign raised or US raised - 40% or 24%) Why are foreigners crazy for Hindu Indian men? Stability (marriagepartner.com is advertising Hindu Indian divorce rates), a man who has a career so they can possibly be stay at home moms/wives forever (see Hoffman/Averett Women and The Economy for the high statistics of stay at homes after kids for foreign women) The blogger who is advertising false stats has the nerve by the way to have excerpt regarding guilt of intercultural marriage! Guilt over false propaganda claims: none.
So Indian women, don't give up hope. These personal networking sites are very new, but most of us in reality did not have access to fellow Indians (unless living in urban setting like New York City)in same age group our whole life nor especially in daily life...it is painful in so many aspects to find a guy who is nothing of what you expect because of what you have seen from all of your own relatives and upbringing. Our families we have access to all married from all borders of India- the communities are strong but living their suburban lifestyles in other states or even within state, meaning their only access is relatives, temple friends or their Indian store cohorts ;). So you expect this same traditional backbone from the two whole single Indian men you come across. Bad move!

Hinduism Why Cows are Holy (First Link)

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The Vedas strictly prohibits the eating of cows, horses, elephants, dolphins, cats, dogs, pigs (mammals) and includes many verses on Vegetarianism and how this diet relates to "being spiritual" or "being religious."

A cobra uncoils from his lower right forearm, and the crescent moon and a skull are on his crest. He dances within an arch of flames. This dance is called the Dance of Bliss, ananda tandava. The upper right hand holds a small drum shaped like an hourglass that is called a ḍamaru in Sanskrit A specific hand gesture (mudra) called ḍamaru-hasta (Sanskrit for "ḍamaru-hand") is used to hold the drum. It symbolizes sound originating creation. The upper left hand contains Agni or fire, which signifies destruction. The opposing concepts in the upper hands show the counterpoise of creation and destruction. The second right hand shows the Abhaya mudra (meaning fearlessness in Sanskrit), bestowing protection from both evil and ignorance to those who follow the righteousness of dharma. The second left hand points towards the raised foot which signifies upliftment and liberation. The dwarf on which Nataraja dances is the demon Apasmara, which symbolises Shiva's victory over ignorance (not Epilepsy). As the Lord of Dance, Nataraja, Shiva performs the tandava, the dance in which the universe is created, maintained, and resolved. Shiva's long, matted tresses, usually piled up in a knot, loosen during the dance and crash into the heavenly bodies, knocking them off course or destroying them utterly. The surrounding flames represent the manifest Universe. The snake swirling around his waist is kundalini, the Shakti or divine force thought to reside within everything. The stoic face of Shiva represents his neutrality, thus being in balance.

Much of what this is true: but don't be misled by Wikepedia's foreigner's interpretation of Apsamara - Shiva's Universal Dance had nothing to do with conquering "epilepsy!" The demon is an Apsara, not an Epileptic condition (Apsamara) in Vedic texts: Apsaras had the power to seduce kings and those saints from a righteous path; as well, they implied ignorance for if one was seduced by the lower world of lust and anger, their path of destruction was laid out for them. Medical conditions or nutritional Ayurvedic (India's ancient medical science) deficiencies were never depicted in Vedic texts to connotate spiritual ignorance and backwardness. See also Dante's 7 Hells - similar principles

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nataraja

On Inter Racial/Cultural/Religious Marriage - (pic: Hindu Onam Celebration)

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Interracial relationship India Chicago Tribune if link doesn't go through and comment
by RM is great one! What inspired the following:


 (orange is Holy color in Hinduism btw) I commend you for calling yourself an Indian Hindu. However being a Hindu requires teaching your children about Hinduism. There are Catholics in this country who send their children to Catholic schools. There are very Orthodox Baptists, Christians, Jewish, and Muslims who fervently instill in their children the values and traditions as well as religion.
Our homogenous Hindu parents combined made a whole hearted effort to feed us Vegetarian Indian food daily- our Hindu moms had prayer rooms in house with all the respective saints & Gods (referred to in other religions as idols - note: Judaism & Islam do not allow for prescence of pictures or statues in home or mosque or synagogue;it is considered idol worship;10 Commandments of Judaism however are important-important to note as well women are not allowed in places of worship in Islam), they offered prasad nightly, conducted aartis, went to temple (thru teens from young age) on weekend basis(Chinmaya mission as well- they offer great classes for the children and community events for them) attended pujas monthly or for major life events with relatives; along with going to temple weekly and for blessings for life events.

     A friend whose Hindu cousin is married to a Christian Anglo male herself does all the same things. The kids having a true Hindu Indian parent (in religious aspect) will be true Hindus in the long run and pass the religion on to their children. The difference in your case is that your Catholic wife who is not teaching your children any of the values of Hinduism, and in fact the opposite. I understand many of us eat chicken (though very rarely) for the thousands of Hindu families we know here but a big part of HInduism is in fact Vegetarianism In same way Muslims do not eat pigs, we do not eat cows nor red meat as a majority. It is a key aspect of Hinduism!! IN INDIA COW MEAT IN THOUSANDS OF YEARS WAS NOT ALLOWED NOR TODAY! Nor is eating red meat, on consistent basis in majority (90% of our homes abroad &in India) &nor hunting innocent animals as your wife is acceptable in Hinduism. Your children will have no real knowledge of what Hindu mothers teach.
     In western countries, I agree, where it is all sorts of animals offered in all settings &eaten daily, it is more difficult and even those of us raised in Hindu homes our parents did not want to traumatize us during school years. We ate peanut butter & jelly sandwiches most of the week but were allowed meat sandwiches at school. The difference is the home which has a prayer room- meat was rarely served and more on never side, at that.These children growing up in these families have created the new generation of actual Hindus who cook vegetarian Indian food 90% of the time.
      http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t05S_dLmQN0&feature=channel_page *why cows are Holy in HinduismAside from your culinary choices which are not Hindu based (and you are quite flexible since I can't imagine a Muslim husband accepting roasted pig every night frm his Christian wife) the Hindu mothers and Hindu fathers here also took their children to the temple consistently as in every weekend, and for major life events.The question of dilution and dissolvement by first and completely by next generation is present as JR points out in article.There are millions of Orthodox Catholic families (less orthodox than us about daily meat consumption except during Lent) who prohibit marrying outside the gene pool or religion for this reason of dissolvement.Our families know of quite a few in fact..They took children out of wills, at the age of 17-26 the male sons were capable of saying: I will only marry white German, Greek, or Italian Catholic wife.. They said these things to Hindu Indian women (&would have said same to any other women!) Who taught them this? They were raised by two Catholic Italian or other Euro descending parents- So the line continues.
      What the children learn at home has a lifelong effect, It impacts them in way you can not imagine nor forsee now. Your 3rd party appreciation for Christian or Hindu traditions translates to same 3rd party appreciation your kids will have - I can hear them saying "whatever" in their teens as I write this! There are youtube videos of Catholic daughters converting to Islam via their Muslim boyfriends. Your diluted via upbringing children may very well do the same, Why is that a threat?
     See http://www.youtube.com/user/zoom1177 See Conversions from Christianity to Islam or from Judaism. (all Abrahamic faiths- hence the conversions are easier) India fought tooth and nail to prevent from being Islamisized since 700AD the Koran was born, 60 million of us died! Hindu Kusht mountains in Afghanistan make up skulls of  Hindu slaves sent by the thousands by their Arab invaders (Hindu slave traders). Kusht however in Hindi means happy. The Arab or Turkish Muslims redefined it to mean Hindu skulls. Research Fort Chittrogargh in Hydrebad: thousands of HIndu women killed themselves to prevent from being sold as slaves or murdered to the Moghul invaders.The thousands of men in that town lost their lives and met the invaders headon. It was a captured fort- we were outnumbered. Agreed, Muslims are not planning attacks on Hindu population in US but the history is there.India is 85% Hindu the millions that lost their lives sacrificed to prevent it from being 100% Muslim as 7 countries to the west are (though 30% of our land was given to Islam, please view map of Bharat Varsha 6th Cent BC and take time to learn what Maha Bharata means and how ancient this term is): where Koran allows multiple wives, stoning for adultery charges, beheadings for free press; no secularity nor democracy in the government or daily life; Sharia Law on Law only, Vedic scriptures respected women research India's ancient goddesses); Islam enslaved and killed the infidels (term for unbelievers) if they did not convert. In the Koran it is specifically written, if a woman is raped she needs four witnesses if the man in question is honorable member of society,
      The influence from Moghul era in India was the movie "Water" where widows were jailed. See Hindu genocide in India in Google.Rig Vedic scriptures on widows respected them and allowed for re marriage. Sati was an option as well (to die with or for your husband is nowhere near as horrific as being stoned to death). It's not to say your Catholic wife will not raise your children with values- it is to say your children will be more susceptible to prevailing cultural norms & media because the homogenity is not there, and there are many who are actual atheists but refer to themselves as belonging in given religion, even among Hindus (who are not aware of the traditions nor religion, see www.gosai.com re aartis in the Vedas and teaching of offering prasad in Bhagavad Gita) Mothers, as it turns out, play a very important role in your children's upbringing and their value systems and our value systems are tied to our Hindu religion as well as traditions passed down from thousands of years.
     Out of six marriages we know of foreign wife which are Interfaith/race/culture: In majority of the families except one to foreign wife, the children over the years by late 20's are completely mixed up, confused,lost in their cultural/ racial identity and married foreigners, divorced or stayed (to create a new generation of mutts) and pretty much just blended into "whatever the popular culture & norms"  and that is what defines them. Worse: they have zero respect for Hinduism and zero love for India even with an India male father.
     The marriage that worked for foreign female: Jewish wife adopted to all things Indian, allowed the 2 VERY INDIAN SKIN TONE LOOKING SONS to spend a couple years in India with Indian Hindu relatives to prove her devotion to Indian traditions and customs, and those two children are happily married and well adjusted in their cultural & religious identity &married to their own Indian Hindu wives, nor did she speak negatively of India as the other foreign mates did (of course your new foreign wife is not saying anything about India during courtship but it is human nature for the woman in her vanity to want the children to worship "her country her culture" eventually,We knew of women who said all those nice things about India during courtship but once the kids were born, they showed their true colors. (sidenote: I have seen Mexican woman online as example who has Indian boyfriend state Indian women are ugly & of course heard white women as well spew venom about India even to me directly since India guy refused to marry her..It is this competitveness, her daily bread is at stake. The sad thing about it is it like spitting on your own mother while caring for someone who does &just imagine what she will say to the kids, going back to one successful marriage: (p.s. every race and ethnicity is raised with some level of respect and pride for their genetic roots &traditions (why you will notice that sense of brotherhood as example among whites seated together, or Mexicans). What if THIS PARTICULAR MOTHER HADN'T DONE ALL THIS THOUGH? then look at example a) the kids all married out lost in their muttness. So it ended with you. She literally gave up all Jewish traditions &allowed the mother in law to even stay with them for months at a time to pass on what Hindu mothers teach! Indian food daily, Indian prayer room, Indian customs of which there are many...the kids are 100% Indian as you call yourself.
       In our tradition as well: our parents stay with us any time they need, and especially in later years, though not all foreigners send their parents to nursing homes, many do. (A nursing home is not a hospital and infact a place where one's parents are sent to have company with other elderly people. I worked at a nursing home and they function fine reading, playing cards with other tenants. They walk, eat, talk and none had conditions which were suitable for actual hospital setting, if that was the case that is where they would have been!) A friend even went on date with Indian Christian who explained of course parents will go to nursing home, not a question...in our religion: our parents stay with us, grandparents stay with us for years at a time at any stage in their life (Aishwariya Rai defended it on Dave Letterman by the way :!) UNFORTUNATELY, I KNOW OF SITUATIONS WHERE THE INDIAN PARENTS IN INDIA ARE SO HEART BROKEN OF THE INTER RACE RELATIONSHIP THEY CHOSE TO NOT EVEN COME TO THE STATES, IT IS HEARTBREAKING FOR ALL MOTHERS & FATHERS! CHINESE, MEXICAN, ANGLOS R THE SAME!! Again, we are just more ostracized for it..This mixing you call it, compromising, and appreciating is more on side of creating confused mixedup kids than it is well balanced. It's fine as you say they will know of a little of one religion and a little of another but what it really means is: they are just as exposed to Christianity & Hinduism as the rest of the population. Atheists are also exposed, They can attend Diwali function, and have a Christmas Tree. Indian Hindus celebrated Christmas, believe it or not! We had our Christmas trees, presents, and Christmas cookies, BUT NOTE: DAILY WE HAD THE HINDU PRAYER ROOM, THE TEMPLE GOING, THE PUJAS WITH THE RELATIVES, THE AARTIS.Not to sound remedial, but it sticks. Why is it important? Why is calling yourself Indian important?Why do Christian families call themselves Christian? What's the point of it? Are people not allowed to preserve their cultural idenity? nor religious? or both? Is it better we are all just cultural mutt atheists who pretend to be Catholic or Hindu or both? What is point of calling yourself an Indian Hindu? We have scores of customs in same way other races/cutlures/religions have theirs as well (ie Baptising in Catholicism and wine and bread ritual).Ultimately, your children when they have children via constant enforcement of outside "value systems" will in no way teach their children any H. India values, traditions, nor the religion. Since this is the case - they will marry fellow atheists & live happily ever after & as RM stated it ended with you (and this is exactly what we have seen from the foreign marriages).That's nice they enjoy Indian food &movies as much as foreigners have...but it is the food and many more of the above mentioned things.
      When there is an India Independence Parade: will your children care to go? will your children care even to learn of India's history? The consequences of being colonized under UK from 1857 - 1947? How India actually was a very well off country before UK entered India to colonize &exploit?? How India paid $100 million Euros to UK for serving in both World Wars & providing all the goods not to mention the millions of Indian lives lost? ----things are slightly better in India and Uk...but the homogenity that I am referring to: the love for your Indian traditions &the love for India and understanding of her suffering will be substantially watered down than from traditional upbringing unless there is DAILY exposure (EVEN MORE IMPORTANT in a foreign country with MULTIPLE races living, MULTIPLE cultures & MULTIPLE religions co habitating) as we did here from our homogenous setting. It takes two whole Hindu parents to create the Indian Hindu you call yourself.       Go backwards about 15 years when Indian Hindus were portrayed as human sacrificing in Indiana Jones though 90% of India is vegetarian: when your children watch Slumdog or see negative portrayals whether thru media or word of mouth or experience racism from foreigners (please see Times Of India in search on the scores of attacks on Indians last few years in Australia as well as on Sikhs) who are the same race as one of the parents, they will just be so grateful they have a non Hindu Indian mother/father right or feel cursed for it? Many Indians we know including myself have witnessed racism or undergone it and I can't imagine what it would have been like having the race Mom is while dealing with so many different races and experiencing it from her race as example (this is crucial point since the children carry the males genes in all the situations). Goes back to living in multiple worlds simultaneously and because of it a high level of apathy for one of the heritages over the years is not preventable, and that apathy turns into what  I call a cultural mutt, and where I as an example never questioned my identity in terms of racial/cultural/heritage the kids of multi it is much more tumultuous and on daily basis. Say to the kids "your half this half that" daily..that's what it feels like inside.

     If you call yourself an Indian and have any pride in doing so, and want your children to have that same pride...please do a few things: 1)subscribe to India Abroad &India Tribune 2)give your children access to Indian TV (Dish Network) 3)watch classic Bollywood movies with them consistently4)visit and attend reguarly Chinmaya Mission for their lectures &activities for the children: Chinmaya Mission is in every city; Find Dada Vaswani books; go to temple atleast a month; atleast in this way your Children's God won't be their tv 5)Have a Hindu prayer room and since Ganesh symbolizes family, there should be Ganesh upon entrance of home as well 6) Also, will your three children ever be exposed to Indian dress? Our thousands of Hindu mothers here abroad branched off thru relatives and who are still married with their children wore salwar kurthis daily & saris daily in the home and with relatives. It doesn't mean being prohibited from wearing American fashion, but if in fact you are Indian and visit to India: you will notice the clothes & fashion (quite different). Your children when compared to families here raised in homogenous setting are getting a 360 degree difference in their upbringing. Those children except for one family that our Indian men married foreign wives: are not Indian in any sense! An interesting paradox, looking Indian but not being Indian in their values, customs and worse have minimum to zero respect or love for their father country. The children again, we know of today with foreign fathers would have been in same predicament had their Moms not instilled the daily Indian customs and religion(they are not old enough to know if they will all marry out or what %, where line ends concept comes from)
The differences are quite respectable, the Indian ness you have came from two practicing parents (and from how many generations down).